Parents need time to recharge.
They need to communicate with each other to make sure they are both getting me -time.
They will then be more willing and able to give to our children.
They will be more present and engaged when we are with them.
How long have you been wondering if this is what being married with a child is like? 2 months? 7 months? 5 years?!
It took me a while to admit that I was having a hard time juggling being a mom and wife and that maybe it had something to do with my relationship with my husband. I was scared to admit that things at home didn’t feel the same and that we were not clicking like we used to ( Aren’t we supposed to be all smiles after baby and simply cooing at baby and at each other?)
My complaints, tears and frustration seemed to be falling on deaf ears, and I wondered if I could really do this wife and motherhood thing and still be myself.
BUT I kept trying different ways to communicate, and now with the house clean and no silent treatment, regular time to myself and a meltdown free life, I have learnt a thing or two
Go back to being happy, more carefree and in tune with your spouse!